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Hi Christalle,<BR>I read your post to Roberta about cyber-affairs. I have spent since March of 98 trying to put my marriage back together. I know H never touched anyone else, or took the chance of STDs however he broke my heart and the trust in our marriage is forever compromised I fear. I don't mean to pry but I came here looking for people who could understand and maybe help. Hope to talk to you and I wrote the addresses down that you recommended. Thankyou Christalle, I have more hope every day.<BR>Hugs<BR><P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>

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Hi alleyoop<P>Love to talk with you [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>How can we hook up? Do you have email? If you don't want to post your address here, I'll set up a hotmail account so you can mail me.<P>Hope to talk to you soon!<P>------------------<BR>"One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time."<BR>-- Andre Gide

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alleyoop, I'm around right now if you are. Maybe we could realtime chat through ICQ or elsewhere?

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Anyway I could join this discussion, too? Read my profile.....we are all in the same boat..<BR>email at **edit**<P>------------------<BR>Susan

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i hope you 3 don't mind me asking a few questions, my H also found an on-line "friend", but to my amazement after months of lying (may I add he did it very well), I found out that he actually had met her, and slept with her. I guess this is my negative side coming out, but how are you all so sure your H's havn't been with the other woman? I truely believe my H would never, I was dumb founded when I learned how he did it. I hope you all know that I wish you guys nothing but success!

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Hi Sue. Sorry to see you *need* to join this discussion, but welcome to the "club" [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Glad: I know my H didn't meet his online bimbos because they were over 7,000 miles away. And he was home every night.<P>Do any of you guys have people link or ICQ? We should get together for a chat.

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Hi everyone,<BR>Thanks for answering my post Christalle. I have ICQ, my # is **edit** and my nickname is alley. Please contact me on ICQ. Any of you who would like to chat. I have never had such mixed emotions about anything. I thought I was a tough female and in control of myself at the very least. NOT! This has been a nightmare of outragous proportions! I never had a clue. <BR>Again, thanks for responding, hope to talk to you soon.<BR>Hugs<P> <P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>

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Ok, guys need help....how do Iset up an ICQ?? I have AOL and have Instant messinger, is ICQ different?? And lets figure out a time to chat. Email me at **edit**!!<P>------------------<BR>Susan

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Hi Sue,<BR>I just tried to send you ICQ so you could download it from an invitation, but it came back with "e-mail address invalid". Am I omiting something in your address? skmrider@aol.com. Correct me if I'm wrong and I will try to send it again. <BR>Hugs,<P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>

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Ally, that's it.....**edit**...plez try again!!If you want to send me your email, I will answer and then you can link back to my address....<P>------------------<BR>Susan

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