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Something that got brought to me,"in love" or "love", what is the difference?

I am not sure what the difference is or that there is a difference.

Help, please!!!!

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Dawn, I don't understand the question. Do you mean the difference between "with love" and "in love?"


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"In love" to me, is more intense. You are 'in love' when you adore your partner, you want to please him/her, you want to share your life with that person. "Love" is, on the other hand, more generic. You have a lot of love in your life - you can love your neighbors, animals, nature, etc. You can 'love' someone too, because he/she is nice to you, he/she makes you laugh, and you enjoy his/her company. But you may not be 'in love'.

That's how I see it.

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Originally Posted by milkshake
"In love" to me, is more intense. You are 'in love' when you adore your partner, you want to please him/her, you want to share your life with that person. "Love" is, on the other hand, more generic. You have a lot of love in your life - you can love your neighbors, animals, nature, etc. You can 'love' someone too, because he/she is nice to you, he/she makes you laugh, and you enjoy his/her company. But you may not be 'in love'.

That's how I see it.

Well put.


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Originally Posted by milkshake
"In love" to me, is more intense. You are 'in love' when you adore your partner, you want to please him/her, you want to share your life with that person. "Love" is, on the other hand, more generic. You have a lot of love in your life - you can love your neighbors, animals, nature, etc. You can 'love' someone too, because he/she is nice to you, he/she makes you laugh, and you enjoy his/her company. But you may not be 'in love'.

That's how I see it.

I agree with milkshake. To go a step further, "in love" by my understanding of the principles here is derived from a person who meets your emotional needs (especially the top 3 or 4) and allows you to meet theirs. I love my kids, but I'm not "in love" with them - they certainly don't meet my emotional needs. I think I might have been "in love" with the woman I spent most of the weekend with, even if it was only temporarily. (now there's a question for you).

Hey Daybreak, you have 2233 posts. Are we reading your question correctly, or is there more to it than that??

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Thanks all!!!

Great explanations, I love it!!!! LoL!!

Yeah Opt I have been here a while!!!!

Thanks for the help!!!!

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