How did you meet this woman? Did you meet her before you were divorced? Was she divorced when you met her?

My advice? Let her reap the consequences of what she�s sown and bail and never look back.

She is pregnant with another man�s child? Why do you want to deal with that? Don�t you think OM will not want to be involved? Odds are very high he doesn�t know.

Seriously, bail. Let this woman flounder on her own for what she�s done.

My advice to you? Move in close to your kids and worry about them instead of raising the child of another man that is the result of adultery.

Be a father. Quit trying to salvage something with someone who isn�t worth it when you have kids that need you in their life. So you won�t take care of your own kids or be near them but you�ll take on the baby of a man your wife cheated on you with?

Where are your priorities?

Well, sorry if there was any confusion. I live just down the street from my children and I see them several days a week. My children have always been a priority in my life and I would not have it any other way.

If that is the case then remove the external distractions from their lives. That means get rid of this woman. They probably don't think much of her.

Your kids are teens. They will be adults soon enough. So why take on the child of another man? Kick her to the curb and focus on your kids.

You have none with this woman. Focus on the ones you have.

I may be in the minority in this view. Follow the others advice if you wish to save this disaster.

Jet--

Please focus on YOUR children instead of this woman and child that is not yours. You may say you have a focus on them, but "I see them several days a week" isn't going to cut it.