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Hello all,
A new member here. Married for over 15 yrs. 4 kids ages 15 13 11 and 6. I have begged and pleaded, tried everything i can think off but to no avail. she won't budge, no matter what. have to go through mediations and friends of court next. it should all be done in mid january the trial date. Can anyone out there suggest something to me. i am open to anything to get my love back and keep my family together. quickly, she's cited mental abuse as main reason for this. to her defense she complained to me but was slow to catch on, and when i did she was no longer interested. i am really at a loss and would do anything she asks of me. peace
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Joined: May 2010
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Have you tried snooping?
There might be another "REAL" decision she is leaving...maybe for another man?
Check her phone, email, facebook, VAR in her car, a GPS, etc
Your wife might be cheating, snoop then come back here.
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Joined: Oct 2010
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I think you're leaving out a lot of important information.
What is the real story to your divorce?
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Hope4z,
There is a 99% chance that you wife is having an affair (whether she denies it or not--don't believe her one bit).
You need to snoop, gather proof (I guarantee you'll find it sadly), and EXPOSE to everyone ASAP.
xWW:
Secret LTA w/ thrice married OM at her workplace; EA/PA starts ~ 2005-6
Files & completes D - 2007, OM/OMW#3 D - 2007, Affairage - immediately thereafter
Disappears in 2006 w/o even a goodbye to anyone, Never a paragraph of real truth ever spoken
Me/xBH:
M "for life", Suspicions (denied) & desperate Plan A latter-half '06
1st D-day 1/07, full truth D-day 7/08 (all via 3rd parties)
NC w/ xWW 8/08-date, better off w/o unrepentant vileness, betrayal, & rampant deceit in my life anymore
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