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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

The dreamworld is coming to an end! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

I gave the nice people her cell number, her sister's number, her father's number and best of all OMW's number. Just the mere mention of XW to her will make life a miserable sh1t for him. *giggles*

The house is GONE! The bills aren't paid. And best of all, no man has been stupid enough to get duped into paying her extravagant lifestyle.

I'm about .25� into the $160,000 I'm owed in paybacks.

Her next move will to be to start making the moves on a man at church. She will claim "god" has put them together and her last marriage is forgiven because is was a "mistake". She will make a BIG deal out of it in front of the whole congregation of just how happy she is.


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I got much satisfaction out of giving bill collectors my xh's last known number and address, but none were so fulfilling as the time I said, "Oh him? You can reach him at the Dept of Corr, Inmate #blahblahblah. Please remove me from your list of contacts."

ahhhh...


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Add me to the list of "you can run but you can't hide from the bill collectors" forwarders.

Let's see: not only does she owe on credit cards, but she owes medical expenses, taxes, and I'm even getting calls from her deceased former husband's mortgage company!

No wonder she decided to legally change her name. She believes that will make it all "go away."

This isn't just immature, it's proof positive of her disordered state!


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I want her failure to be spectacular and so humiliating that it registers over 10 on the richter scale.

I want to gloat, openly, loudly.


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I don�t get a lot of collection calls�yet, but they are sure to be coming. EW still has mail coming to my P.O. box. She�s getting letters from credit card and finance companies at the rate of about 3 per week. They are wondering where their money is. rotflmao I love it!!
I don�t pass them on to her I just throw them in the garbage with all the other junk mail. It�s entertaining just sitting back and watching the fairy tale crumble. The Karma bus is definitely picking up speed!


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I thought that a change was in order to start the new year. It was time for me to fly after all.
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My ex-wife thought she was a b!tch, until she met Karma.

And it is going to run over her dogma.


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I get collection calls and letters for my XH all the time. He never actually lived with me and didn't start using my mailing address and phone number until AFTER we broke up. Apparently there's no law against it, grrr! Notified post office to no avail. Apparently I have to return to sender each and every piece of mail that comes for him every day for the rest of my life or it "establishes residency". Can't get on line places to get him off my address. As for the collection calls, I let my answering system get them and if I'm in a good mood, I call and tell them his cell phone number. I'm surprised he gave it to me. I have no clue where he lives but I give them his current employer. Of course if the garnishments ever come, he'll just quit his job. He's good at hiding, he did that from me. Ain't it fun, folks?!


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Wow, you guys are GOOD. I had the same experience after my XH left home, but I ended up paying off all of his debt AND his fancy car. I know, I was too naive.

Glad you guys are very good at forwarding those calls and letter!!

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Originally Posted by CWMI
I said, "Oh him? You can reach him at the Dept of Corr, Inmate #blahblahblah. Please remove me from your list of contacts."

Sweet Jesus !

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Originally Posted by kaycstamper
I get collection calls and letters for my XH all the time. He never actually lived with me and didn't start using my mailing address and phone number until AFTER we broke up. Apparently there's no law against it, grrr! Notified post office to no avail. Apparently I have to return to sender each and every piece of mail that comes for him every day for the rest of my life or it "establishes residency".
I take the attitude that any mail that gets delivered to my address now is either meant for me or is junk mail. Junk mail (anything with her name on it) is thrown into the trash unopened.

I'm heartened to know that one's credit rating is negatively impacted -- for seven years from the date of last collection attempt. My actions are simply keeping her credit rating where it belongs.

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Originally Posted by milkshake
I ended up paying off all of his debt AND his fancy car.

Me too, I had to pay off his business, our motorhome (which I never got to use and he got to keep with his skanky OW) and our car (which they also got to keep). AND I had to pay for his cellphone and insurance for months after the divorce! He cost me over $50,000 for naught.

So I am happy to give anyone his phone number, just wish I had his address!


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Originally Posted by Pariah
I want her failure to be spectacular and so humiliating that it registers over 10 on the richter scale.

I want to gloat, openly, loudly.

You could do that by filming her crash and sending it to that CourtTv show "World's Dumbest Criminals"... just a thought? rotflmao


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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My boss and I flew down back to my home town Friday. We went to go sight in our deer rifles.

My XBIL came to go shoot with us over at my older brother's house. Older Brother met us at the airport and we all met up for lunch. Over lunch XBIL told me he is proud of my work at the raptor center. He said he had never seen me so happy. (dig at XW) He said he shares all the pictures and videos with his wife. (XW's sister) So XW absolutely KNOWS just how WELL I am doing. It also says alot for me the owner of a twenty million dollar a year company CHOOSES to be my best friend.

Did mention I got another raise when NOBODY else got squat? Last month he got me as a bonus a 1982 Colt Python as a bonus. Yes, we shot it at my older brother's house and XBIL got to drool over it even though XBIL is a successful attorney. XBIL is a great guy and was my best friend for many years.



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You must have the world's best boss ever if he gives you a nice gun like that as a bonus.

I imagine your XW is going " toe tap How is this POSSIBLE? He's supposed to be a miserable shabby WRECK without me!!! ME! I'm what made him special!"

From a woman's perspective, that is. I know if I was her (which I'm glad I'm not, she has rolled out the welcome mat for karma as far as it can go, with her actions) I'd be steaming mad that YOU were doing better than I, the most specialest princess ever (the impression I get from your posts that she thought of herself)!!!


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.

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