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#2436025 10/18/10 09:36 PM
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I've had some health issues (GI) recently and finally went to the doctor for them. frown

Long story short, I got a CT scan (my first ever) of my abdomen as my blood tests were normal, and it appears I wasted money, because nothing, apparently, was found.

Plus, their Kool-Aid was really bad. uhuh (Those of you who've had an abdomen CT scan know what I mean by this)

So those of you who have had scans of this sort, could you try to help me put my mind at ease? If they didn't find anything on the CT, isn't that bad?

Prayers would be nice, too. Thank you. smile


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I will not spend my life this way.
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My prayers are with you, karm...sending good mojo your way...


Sorry I cant help you I havent had any experience with GI scans...I hope your okay.


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Hi karma, My day job is typing hospital reports for ER and admits. I can tell you that practically everybody who walks into an ER gets a CT scan for whatever their complaint is - it's very common.

If your labs are normal, that's a very good sign. If the docs still aren't convinced, that's when they go to an MRI. Have you talked to the docs? What do they say? And ask to see your chart! It will have their opinions on it. And remember, somebody like me typed it up!


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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
Mulan #2436254 10/19/10 02:20 PM
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Haven't talked to the docs. My main concern is the cost and whether or not I'm going to have to pay the full $3,200 cost (since I didn't "ask permission" as is the custom for procedures like this).


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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karmasrose #2436653 10/20/10 02:44 PM
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KR, my daughter is also experiencing some GI problems. She did the same test (I think) as you. It seems that she might have an acid reflux problem. She's still researching the matter, but the sense I have is that once completely diagnosed, she'll be able to treat it and live a normal life. I wish you well.


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Fred_in_VA #2436748 10/20/10 05:28 PM
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Thanks, Fred. This problem has been plaguing me for a while and it would be nice to finally get rid of it.

I've never thought about it maybe being an acid reflux problem...hrmmm.


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karmasrose #2439550 11/01/10 07:37 PM
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An update.

I went in to see a GI doctor and she told me there was a lesion on my liver, and that she recommended an MRI and a colonoscopy.

Yippee. frown

So I get to have a colonoscopy on the 29th.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
karmasrose #2439594 11/01/10 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Yippee. frown

So I get to have a colonoscopy on the 29th.
Just between you and me, a colonoscopy is a piece of cake.

It's the prep that isn't a lot of fun. sick


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Fred_in_VA #2439652 11/02/10 07:50 AM
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The nice lady scheduling it did make a point of telling me that they'd be giving me "the really good drugs" for the procedure, that I'd probably fall asleep, that sort of thing.

And yeah...the prep. frown

Is there anything I need to worry about the day of the procedure afterwards, fred? Besides being nuttier than a fruitcake from the drugs.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
karmasrose #2439676 11/02/10 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Is there anything I need to worry about the day of the procedure afterwards, fred? Besides being nuttier than a fruitcake from the drugs.
My experience was pretty dull. I swallowed the goop, did the poop, and then showed up. The doctor said I'd be anesthetized, and could watch the procedure on a monitor if I wanted, but most people simply choose to sleep.

In fact, I had a dual procedure: The doctor chose to perform an endoscopy following the colonoscopy (an endoscopy is when they put a tube down your throat - essentially the opposite procedure), so they upped the dosage on me which put me out like a light.

I woke up in the recovery room (to good news, by the way: I was told I was so clean I didn't have to return for another TEN years!), was given some time to come to, and then was sent home. Even though I had to arrange for transportation, I actually felt like I could have driven, and really suffered no side affects.

I had no marathons scheduled for that day, so I just took it easy. No problem, no fuss, no muss. smile

You'll do fine.


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Hi karmarose-

Since my DS22 just had this procedure today (along with an endoscopy) I think I can tell you a few things about it.

First of all, your doctor will give you all the pertinent instructions about the pre-procedure diet etc (clear liquids for about 24 hours and the "goop"). The day of the procedure, you will have to have someone who will drive you home or be with you on the bus or taxi ride home because you will be loopy and they want you to be safe. If you don't, they won't do the procedure.

I was my DS's driver. I didn't have to be there for the whole time. I just had to confirm that I was the one who would be driving.

It wasn't too bad for him because he really can't remember much of it. laugh

Hope this helps-


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Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!

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Originally Posted by johnstwin
It wasn't too bad for him because he really can't remember much of it. laugh
This is true! I can't swear to it, but I've heard that just before the procedure is complete, the anesthetist "bumps the dose" a tad -- just enough to cause immediate short-term memory loss.

Whether or not that's true, my gastroenterologist made a point to tell me that I probably wouldn't remember much of it. Sure enough, my memory is very vague on this.


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Fred_in_VA #2439898 11/02/10 09:31 PM
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It's not possible to request a video or something of it AFTERWARDS, is it? Do they allow that? I wouldn't want to remain awake in that situation, but, I still want to see the footage.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Not sure about a video...but they gave us pictures!!!!

My dad and my DS's gf may like seeing them, since my dad is a retired Dr. of Internal Medicine and my DS's gf is a nurse. Most likely not top choice for our Christmas card this year though... laugh


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johnstwin #2446911 11/28/10 04:13 PM
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Drinking the stuff now. Ugh, it's disgusting. Sorry if this bugs some of you, but...the thought of drinking it has rather scared me and...well...

I'm trying to drink it quickly, but I just can't seem to get it down quickly enough.

An hour. I should have had four of these down by now and I'm barely on my second one! Uggggh.

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One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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been there, it's not so bad, hope it all works out well for you...........


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jessitaylor #2446943 11/28/10 07:19 PM
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Thanks. I just keep getting slower, the stuff's nasty. I knew you guys would understand, so...


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
karmasrose #2446944 11/28/10 07:26 PM
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Good Luck, karma....I hope everything is fine.


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found MB dec 2007
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still seeing OW
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Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
stillhere8126 #2446947 11/28/10 07:41 PM
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Any tips for drinking the nasty stuff?


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
karmasrose #2446950 11/28/10 07:48 PM
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Put it in a really big margarita???? smile

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