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I am new to this forum and have never joined a forum before.
So, he is having an affair. I am sad and disappointed beyond words. Yet, for me, the affair is merely symptomatic of our larger problem and lack or resolution over the years. I hope to find an open door to talk about what is going on. Right now I am frightened and have had absolutely nonone to talk with so this forum is really important to me.
Living to be the kindest,most loving, most alive, most compassionate,most thoughtful, healthiest and most caring person that I can be.
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Welcome to MB foh...
Can you give us some details...
Who is OW? (is SHE married)
Any Kids?
How long married?
How long has the affair been going on?
Have you had your d-day? What happened?
Have you exposed your husband and the OW?
Mr. W
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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This forum was a Godsend for me 5 years ago. It's even better now.
Stick around there is a lot of collective experience here for you to learn.
Mr. W
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Welcome,
I just wanted to say that we can all relate here and all is not lost, your first job is to educate yourself with all the great info on the site and then get yourself a plan.
Talk your plan through here and remember that things take time and keep yourself calm................talk to you soon
BW 56
WH 57
Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
DS 23, DS 25
D-Day Nov 23/09
NC Mar 1/10
Working on Recovery
Grateful for finding Marriage Builders
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