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Good morning all...looking for a letter to use as an example. We are sitting down tonight to review and send.
Thanks!
Me, FW - 40
M - 18 yrs
DD & DS (15, 11)
DDay- 08/30/10; 2nd DDay - 11/18/10
WH had EA/PA from 04/09 - 11/10
My Return from Deployment May 09
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It is on page 58-59 of Surviving An Affair
If you don't have that book.....get it and get it now.
OW,
I want you to know that out of respect and love for my wife and children, I have come to realize that I must never see or talk with you again. My relationship with you was a cruel indulgence that BW did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay BW for the pain I have caused her, I will do my best to become the husband she has been missing. I care a great deal for my family and I would not want to do anything to risk their happiness. I will not make any further contatct with you and I do not want you to make any contact with me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.
Sincerely, WH
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Thanks, reading. 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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