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#2451744 12/13/10 11:29 AM
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Is there a link to all the fog babble that comes out of WS piehole? The stuff that seems to repeat, repeat and repeat, just out of a different talking head. Things like "I love you as the mother/father of my kids", "I love you but not in love with you", "I hope we can still be friends".

Granted there are MANY crazy things that spew from the mouths of WS but there has to be list of common fog babble somewhere, right?

Thanks, Mitzie


BS/ME 47 Met on blind date
WH 46(Alcoholic,drugs?)
DS1:18 DS2:15
1st A EA9/07 PA10/07 NC11/07
2nd A EA/PA-10/2010
Found out- 11/20/2010
He moved out-1/1/2011 same apt.cmplx as OW(&her kids)
PlanB-1/1/11(broken)
NEW PB-2/11 Taking it one day at a time


There are two kinds of people in the world: Those who say to God, "Thy will be done" and those to whom God says, "Alright then, have it your way." ~C .S.Lewis


mitzie #2451929 12/13/10 05:27 PM
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Fog babble is the crazy stuff they say, the ws. The slop that comes from the oral orifice of liars. And it is usually revisionist history.

There's another thread right now on page 2 about crazy things your ws has told you, which could be also considered fog babble.

Check that thread out! It's sad, true, and darkly amusing.

One oldtime trick I learned from a wise MB'er was to somewhat repeat it back to them, and they usually are equally confunded by the words also. Or repeat it back and revise that.

Example:
ws: She's my best friend, (the ow). I love her, and we never had any feelings like this before, you or I.
bs: Wow, she's your best friend? How can you love anybody who lies all the time and is active in betrayal? No you're right ws, we never had any feelings like THAT before. It was love and honor.

You twist their words and try to make them see the audacity of their mouth diarrhea.

But most of the time, it takes far far much more to break thru to a ws. It takes following the MB plan A and B all the way through. However, knowing how to babble back to them isn't bad sometimes either and it can confund the confused and maybe make them see how crazy the stuff is coming out of oral orifice.


Change happens by listening and then starting a dialogue with the people who are doing something you don't believe is right. ~Jane Goodall
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I bumped an older thread for you, Mitzi.


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What does that mean, "bumped an older thread for you"? Sorry, don't know full lingo yet. Should I look somewhere else for thread? Thanks maritalbliss.


BS/ME 47 Met on blind date
WH 46(Alcoholic,drugs?)
DS1:18 DS2:15
1st A EA9/07 PA10/07 NC11/07
2nd A EA/PA-10/2010
Found out- 11/20/2010
He moved out-1/1/2011 same apt.cmplx as OW(&her kids)
PlanB-1/1/11(broken)
NEW PB-2/11 Taking it one day at a time


There are two kinds of people in the world: Those who say to God, "Thy will be done" and those to whom God says, "Alright then, have it your way." ~C .S.Lewis


mitzie #2452483 12/15/10 12:19 AM
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Yes mitzie, that means that someone, in this case MB, "pushed" an old thread to the top. Look for it in the first page or two.


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