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I just want to say a huge thank you to all you regulars on here who come here to help others, you are all very good people who without you I personally would not have made it.
I would not want to mention names as I would be afraid of missing someone. You all know who you are.
You are all so very kind.
Happy New Years
(Its 5.17pm in England so not long!!)
BW/FWW 34 (Harmony)
BH/WH 36
Feb 2009 - Affair starts, physical for 9 days on business trip.
Mar 2009 - Separate from H, live alone
Apr 2009 - realise I have made big mistake and attempt reconciliation with H, establish NC with OM.
Jun 2009 - H physical and emotional serial A start right upto present day.
Jul 2009 - NC with OM broken and becomes EA
Mar 2010 - H reads email and discovers A
Jul 2010 - Discover MB
Aug 2010 - Plan A starts
Oct 2010 - Plan B starts
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Happy New Year to you, Harmony!! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Me too, sincerely thank you. You guys deserve a lot of credit for what you are trying to do.
The world is full of people who try to tear up peoples lives you are the good ones, trying to hold it all together. Don't let anyone tell you different.
No matter what - you made a difference in my life and countless others that never even posted, just read.
FBH,Dad
No half measures, in anything.
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Yes, thanks! Even for the unrelenting admonishments. I do listen and take to heart every bit of advice I've received.
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Thank You Harmony for starting this thread.
Everyne should know, especially the vets, that they DO make a difference in other peoples lives.
May 2011 bring peace and happiness to all.
2010 will forever be known,IMHO, as THE YEAR THAT SUCKED!
BS/ME 47 Met on blind date
WH 46(Alcoholic,drugs?)
DS1:18 DS2:15
1st A EA9/07 PA10/07 NC11/07
2nd A EA/PA-10/2010
Found out- 11/20/2010
He moved out-1/1/2011 same apt.cmplx as OW(&her kids)
PlanB-1/1/11(broken)
NEW PB-2/11 Taking it one day at a time
There are two kinds of people in the world: Those who say to God, "Thy will be done" and those to whom God says, "Alright then, have it your way." ~C .S.Lewis
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May 2011 bring peace and happiness to all. Why, pray tell, do we have to wait until May, 2011 for peace and happiness????? I want it NOW.  Happy New Year to all. Mr. Wondering p.s. - and thanks again to the Harley Family for providing this information and website free of charge and to the many veterans that were around back in the day and helped Mrs. W and I restore and rebuild our marriage.
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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I just want to say a huge thank you to all you regulars on here who come here to help others
Happy New Years
(Its 5.17pm in England so not long!!) Harmony, YOU are a regular and I have seen you give good advice. Keep doing it! Happy New Year from a fellow Brit. Let's you and I celebrate it on time, while the rest of this lazy crew catches up!
BW
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p.s. - and thanks again to the Harley Family for providing this information and website free of charge and to the many veterans that were around back in the day and helped Mrs. W and I restore and rebuild our marriage. Thank you so much for saying this! If it weren't for them and their generosity, very few of us would have recovered marriages today. Nor would we have a forum to get help on!! Thank you Dr and Mrs Harley!!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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May 2011 bring peace and happiness to all. Why, pray tell, do we have to wait until May, 2011 for peace and happiness????? I want it NOW. 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Happy New Year from a fellow Brit. Let's you and I celebrate it on time, while the rest of this lazy crew catches up! Happy New Year, you Limeys!
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Who let all the foreigners in here!!??
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Who let all the foreigners in here!!?? 
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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D-Day 2-10-2009
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![[Linked Image from epicurious.com]](http://www.epicurious.com/images/recipesmenus/2000/2000_march/103210.jpg) It looks a lot better than its name! You don't know how afraid I was to google for an image of "spotted d i ck"! 
D-Day 2-10-2009
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It looks a lot better than its name! You don't know how afraid I was to google for an image of "spotted d i ck"!
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Yes,  to ALL the regulars. Thanx to Dr and Mrs H too. This is my second New Year at MB and I will say that it most DEFINITELY better than the last one. Here is to better and BETTER New Years for EVERYONE(even you lurkers, we like YOU too.  )
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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It looks a lot better than its name! You don't know how afraid I was to google for an image of "spotted d i ck"! That pudding is delicious! It's one of my favourites!
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...ssshhhh! The Brits are back! Act casual...  Oh, hi Sugar!
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
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