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This is really interesting because he explains WHY a BW should not stay in Plan A for long and why she should not chase her WH. He explains why a BH should stay in Plan A longer. He addresses the different approaches between a male and female BS. The show is ending in 5 minutes but you can listen to the rebroadcast in about an hour and it will play over and over until the next show on Monday. radio show here
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I was the person who emailed Mrs Harley. I didn't recently go into Plan B, but I guess that is how she understood my email. My BAD.
I am glad that I got the answers to these questions.
I found it quite interesting that he said one of the reasons he tells BHs to stay in Plan A longer than a BW is because he believes that men should be the pursuers in a relationship.
Also interesting that the separation during plan B, for a BW, gives her time to evaluate her sitch and maybe see the WH as someone to whom she no longer would want to be married.
And the part about WW's blaming the BHs for the affair because they weren't meeting their ENs. But WHs usually don't realize that is what is happening until it is too late.
I am NOT doing DrH any justice. Please listen to the show to hear it for yourself. It was a GREAT listen.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I wondered who sent that email! That was a very informative show. I am going to listen to it again. Good job with your question!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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ML,
Great thread I am listening to the Dr H show now, and it always fits in with my current sitch. Thanks again for the link.
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