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Re: What is Plan B? letgoletGod #2461867 01/08/11 09:10 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Originally Posted by letgoletGod BTW Maritalbliss, I never did iron all his work clothes. They are still folded in a laundry basket and it is so full it may tip over. I think I will iron them tonight so they are all together and ready to go. Oh, I mean they are ready in case he needs to wear them. The fact that it will mess with his mind will just be an added bonus. Then I will find something else to organize for him. Smile and wave boys, smile and wave..... Girl, I would NOT iron those clothes! Let him have a taste of life 'post lglg". D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: What is Plan B? maritalbliss #2461928 01/09/11 08:33 AM
Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 299 East Texas, USA L LoveIsaChoice4Me Member
LoveIsaChoice4Me Member L Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 299 East Texas, USA	Originally Posted by maritalbliss Originally Posted by letgoletGod BTW Maritalbliss, I never did iron all his work clothes. They are still folded in a laundry basket and it is so full it may tip over. I think I will iron them tonight so they are all together and ready to go. Oh, I mean they are ready in case he needs to wear them. The fact that it will mess with his mind will just be an added bonus. Then I will find something else to organize for him. Smile and wave boys, smile and wave..... Girl, I would NOT iron those clothes! Let him have a taste of life 'post lglg". 100%! TOTALLY! COMPLETELY! AGREE WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!! Don't know if the Vets will agree with this or not! If I were where you are right now, lglg, this is what I would do! I would: Set up a CD player on the front porch! Put in Gloria Gaynor singing "I WILL SURVIVE"! Set it to "Repeat"! Turn the volume to "Hi"! Strategically place ALL of H's c@p in the "front yard"! NOT the porch! (Maybe it will rain!) DO NOT see/talk to H when he picks up his c@p! (That means: NO PEEKING!!!) Do NOT turn off the CD until H has left with ALL of his c*@p! Put a "HANDS OFF!" sign on the CD player! Tell children they do NOT have to like what you are doing! They DO have to Honor/Respect your decision! Hugs ~ P.S. Have you: Changed the locks on ALL the doors? Blocked H's phone #'s on your cell/land line? Given your children "explicit" instructions about their role in what you are doing? Committed to yourself that you "will" go very "DARK"? No "waffling"? P.S.S. You know, LGLG, you have so many people who are pulling/praying for you right now! Last edited by LoveIsaChoice4Me; 01/09/11 08:40 AM. "Now is the time for all good MB Veterans to come to the aid of their MB Rookies!"

Re: What is Plan B? LoveIsaChoice4Me #2462041 01/09/11 03:55 PM
Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 618 L letgoletGod Member
letgoletGod Member L Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 618	Originally Posted by LoveIsaChoice4Me Don't know if the Vets will agree with this or not! If I were where you are right now, lglg, this is what I would do! I would: Set up a CD player on the front porch! Put in Gloria Gaynor singing "I WILL SURVIVE"! Set it to "Repeat"! Turn the volume to "Hi"! Strategically place ALL of H's c@p in the "front yard"! NOT the porch! (Maybe it will rain!) DO NOT see/talk to H when he picks up his c@p! (That means: NO PEEKING!!!) Do NOT turn off the CD until H has left with ALL of his c*@p! Put a "HANDS OFF!" sign on the CD player! Tell children they do NOT have to like what you are doing! They DO have to Honor/Respect your decision! Hugs ~ P.S. Have you: Changed the locks on ALL the doors? Blocked H's phone #'s on your cell/land line? Given your children "explicit" instructions about their role in what you are doing? Committed to yourself that you "will" go very "DARK"? No "waffling"? P.S.S. You know, LGLG, you have so many people who are pulling/praying for you right now! LoveIsaChoice4Me, I wish I could do that! Maritalbliss knows I am ready but I haven't gotten enough info to expose. When I do it's game on. I even have a code for the people I have talked to. Operation Dumbo..... and when I expose Dumbo has left the building! I will do a plan B so dark he won't be able to see anything. BW 46 XWH 46 Boys 17 & 19 Girls 16 & 10 D-day #1 12/2006 (confessed affair in 2004 w/BF & his wife) D-day #2 10/2008 (denied by XWH) D-day #3 10/2010 Kick WH out 01/2011 he files for D D finally final 03/2012 I'm free!

Re: What is Plan B? letgoletGod #2462159 01/10/11 08:23 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 279 USA M mitzie Member
mitzie Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 279 USA	I'm so dark in Plan B right now I can't even see myself! BS/ME 47 Met on blind date WH 46(Alcoholic,drugs?) DS1:18 DS2:15 1st A EA9/07 PA10/07 NC11/07 2nd A EA/PA-10/2010 Found out- 11/20/2010 He moved out-1/1/2011 same apt.cmplx as OW(&her kids) PlanB-1/1/11(broken) NEW PB-2/11 Taking it one day at a time There are two kinds of people in the world: Those who say to God, "Thy will be done" and those to whom God says, "Alright then, have it your way." ~C .S.Lewis

Re: What is Plan B? mitzie #2462160 01/10/11 08:39 AM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Originally Posted by mitzie I'm so dark in Plan B right now I can't even see myself! "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: What is Plan B? mitzie #2462286 01/10/11 02:25 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,708 Our Planet Earth (small world!... R reading Member
reading Member R Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,708 Our Planet Earth (small world!...	Originally Posted by mitzie I'm so dark in Plan B right now I can't even see myself!

Re: What is Plan B? reading #2464581 01/16/11 07:18 AM
Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,549 Likes: 10 S SugarCane Member
SugarCane Member S Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 9,549 Likes: 10	Bump for fuzzy math. BW Married 1989 His PA 2003-2006 2 kids.

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