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It was exactly 41 days from when I found out about my Wife 'till she split. Didn't have ANY time to get anything sorted out.<P>I wish we had some interaction besides a five minute phone call every 2-3 weeks. If she would just come back or file for divorce, I would at least feel as if SOMETHING was getting done.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>
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Chris, I know how you feel. I had longer from the time I found out and he left but they were horrible days and if the out come was that he would leave I wished he would have done it earlier because then I might still be in my home teaching school. He waited till two weeks before school started and I coul deal with going into the class room at that time. I know how you feel about the lack of contact. I have had none from him for two months. I know this doesn't really help but sometime misery loves company and you and I are in the same place. So I guess were are company for each other. Hang in there we will make it one way or the other we will do good.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>
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Chris, I know what you mean. H and I had our first "I don't love you like I used to" talk on June 28. Found out about Sweetie 2 weeks later. He moved out August 5th. Didn't have time to process the info, much less plan a. Our contact is more or less through my letters, although he has stopped by a few times. Only called 4 times. <P>The last time I heard from him was our anniversary - 10/12. It's hard to know what to do. I send mail to his mom's, 'cause I'm not supposed to have his address (but I do). <P>You've done a good job. I cannot believe your courage. It's kept me going more than once.<P>Lori
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Chris: I never even knew there was a problem till I woke up one morning and she was gone. No note, no phone call. Nothing.<P>I have to admit though I can contact her and her me pretty readily at this point.<P>But that in itself is a roller coaster! WEEEEEE!!! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) <P>------------------<BR>1Co:2:4: And my speech and my preaching was not with enticing words of man's wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power:<BR>1Co:2:5: That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.
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My H told me one morning that he didn't love me anymore and wanted a divorce, and called from work the next evening and said he wasn't coming home. I would give almost anything if he hadn't filed for divorce..
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