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Hi All
I am glad that i found this website so i could share my story here to help the BS.
I am 34 Years old man and has good job and living.
Married in 2001 and has a 7 year old son. A month ago, i discovered and uncovered STBXW affair. I was not in full shocked as i was already prepare for the worse thing. The marriage was great, no issue, great sex and full of love.
One thing that i am happy is that i know that STBXW is not the person who can be faithful for me as W. I hate infidelity in marriage and surely, you would say that i am not a forgiving person by not giving the 2nd chance. Man, marriage is not a usual thing, it is a sacred event in life.
i am here now continuing living on myself and focus on myself and my son.
My advise for the BS is just keep focus on yourself in living, how could we help others if we could not keep ourselves first.
Thats all i can share.
Love for the BS.
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Thanks for your words, I hope you find that woman that also believes that marriage is a sacred thing between two people who love each other. It's nice to see a man who is so together and who knows what he wants and respects himself, keep being a great dad and move forward each and every day.... Peace is a gift...........
BW 56 WH 57 Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that..... DS 23, DS 25 D-Day Nov 23/09 NC Mar 1/10 Working on Recovery Grateful for finding Marriage Builders
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Who says you should always give your W a second chance. This is a decision that you even made before you married I suppose, and you are sticking to your guns. You STBXW probably knew that infidelity meant divorce for you. Her actions show what she has chosen.
I gave my FWW a second chance, but she knows that there will not be a third. That was my decision, and I will stick by it. I think your attitude, and what you want to tell others is very healthy.
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Thx Jessi, i am sure that you are a respectful person
and Wheel hope you will do everything well in your M.
Last edited by hereisme83; 01/12/11 12:44 AM.
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