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My WH's OW was home during the day with her kids and home at night with her husband. She would often have friends watch her kids so she could go meet up with WH. Honestly, keep your eyes open...
Married 7, Separated summer 2010
me, BW: 31
WH: 31
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And I forgot to mention that my WH's affair was mainly through texting and cell phone calls. 4600 messages in one month, the month before was 2100, and the month before was 1300 or so. See the pattern? No wonder he wanted off the cell plan so he wouldn't be watched! He got off, and then went on his parents so he wasn't being watched..... what a joke. Great parents... let's enable your son to have an affair by allowing his secret texting and phone calls, allowing him to stay at your house for 6 mos in your living room......
I say get all the down and dirty you can on her and the brother. They are only steps and not blood related. It happens more than you think. It does sound sick.....
Married 7, Separated summer 2010
me, BW: 31
WH: 31
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This is her half brother. I really question if she's having an affair with her half brother. Perhaps there is another man and an her brother is an enabler?
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I do think that those thinking an affair is going on are wrong. She just doesn't have the time. I used to think the same thing. Of course I was wrong.
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Reallove, I've only been on this site for a little over a year, and I can't count the number of people who began with, "I can't believe he/she/they..."
What I've read here the past year is astounding, hair-raising, and truth-is-stranger-than-fiction amazing.
Please get beyond the he/she/they can't... stage quickly. The best way to do that is to temporarily stop thinking on your own. The amazing thing about this site is the people here who have an uncanny ability to help those who are unable to help themselves.
Resist the temptation to "do it your way." The people here are already telling you how to resolve your doubts, clear your mind and save your marriage.
The more time you waste fighting us, the more time you are allowing your marriage to fail. If that's what you want, why are you here?
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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