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I think that means the big guns are coming out.  What a battle! I know i need every resource i can find to win this one, including those big guns  You're in good hands. Ask her about the interrogation room in her house:)
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You're in good hands. Ask her about the interrogation room in her house:) No, don't! For the love of God, man, don't do it! people go in there and don't come back out... 
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Neil, seriously think about having someone send an anonymous email... Thanks, its just finding that really understanding friend or relative that will, without fear of their ip address being traced here in the UK......
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Thanks, its just finding that really understanding friend or relative that will, without fear of their ip address being traced here in the UK...... Do you have libraries there that have public-access computers?
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I bet she already sent the email for him. Probably used her real name too.
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Yes, but i am unsure of the level of access they give you.
I am hoping an understanding friend can send an anonymous message this weekend! It will then be waiting in the om's girlfriends email box for her when she logs on over the next few days.
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You have mail! I have a couple of questions for you.
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bliss, wake up! Go back and read today's posts again!
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I bet she already sent the email for him. Probably used her real name too. The English never had jurisdiction in Texas anyway! Hope they can interpret her bookoo bad spelling though... 
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I bet she already sent the email for him. Probably used her real name too. The English never had jurisdiction in Texas anyway! Hope they can interpret her bookoo bad spelling though... 
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You have mail! I have a couple of questions for you. Reply sent via extra fast mail! On a lighter note.. Wyatt made me laugh. I wish he'd turn up again tonight!
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Huh? What did I miss?? Waaahhhh, I hate it when I'm clueless! 
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Its been several days since the om's girlfriend would of received an email exposing the affair to her and i thought i'd post asking for advice as to how everyone thinks i should now proceed?
Should i try again at plan a or push forward now with plan b? or can anyone recommend an alternative action please?
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Did you get an acknowledgement of any kind? Try for one.
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Its been several days since the om's girlfriend would of received an email exposing the affair to her and i thought i'd post asking for advice as to how everyone thinks i should now proceed?
Should i try again at plan a or push forward now with plan b? or can anyone recommend an alternative action please? What happened with the email? Did she respond? Do you know without a doubt that she got it?
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Do you know without a doubt that she got it? I believe that she got it 100% but have not heard anything at all from any parties, friends, or relatives with regards to the exposure. It seems strange that no one has telephoned, emailed, or text'd me all this week. I just don't know whats best to do next. If we assume i am right should i at this stage just go totally quiet, or action a preset recommended route?
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I wrote a letter to OM's wife and heard nothing for nearly two weeks. I finally received a letter from her attorney, asking if I would be willing to share my proof of the A and to not contact OMW directly again.
Mine is a long and complicated story, not worth rehashing here. My point was that OM's GF may be processing the information in her own way, and right now that does not mean contacting you.
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My point was that OM's GF may be processing the information in her own way, and right now that does not mean contacting you. Thanks for the reply. I guess it could take a while for anything to surface and if the om's girlfriend is handling it simialar to your circumstances there is a risk i won't receive any contact from her anyway! I feel as if i am stuck in the middle here as to what to do next, my gut feeling thought is probably to go into a totally silent scenario with no contact at all with my ww. If anyone else can recommend a possible solution as to how to proceed i would be grateful? I just can't bear the thought of throwing the towel in at this stage with my marriage.
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