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If your WH is so remorseful, it's time for him to take you for a drive and show you where OW lives. Then confirm with internet search of property taxes/courthouse records, etc. ITA. Your WH should also give you her contact information. And yes, you need to tell the kids. Going forward, your marital mantra should be "No Secrets. No lies." Yes! This.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Wow you all are awesome! I will be stealing a few of your Requirements for coming home.
I haven't yet showed him this forum, just told him about the site and program maybe by tomorrow I will be ready to share the forum although I don't want to feel as if I have to censor myself, so not sure about that.
Thanks again and I will check in tomorrow.
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If you want point him to the articles page, refer him to the book "his needs her needs" and "surviving an affair" etc.. Keep quiet about your ID and thread.
There is enough reading material therein to keep him busy for a while.
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