as a father of 3 kids the 2 youngest are not mine (result of my wifes affair) i do know that me personally just cant turn my feelings off about my kids had i known before the 2 youngest were born i cant say for sure what my feelings would be,

all i know is that i love them and dont want to be without them.

if the kids werent involved and my wife had the affair more than likely i would have filed for D and ran for the hills.

hang in there your child needs you to be strong they cant stand up or defend themselves thats what us parents are for.


male 43 years old
married 9 years (might not make it to 10 years)
3 kids 1 from previous marraige 2 from current marriage