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I haven't been here for quite some time but, I just wanted to come and tell you all that my life is completely different than it was 2 years ago. I have learned so much about life in general and about being a better person.
I have learned that lying and affairs are totally disgusting but all too common. I have really been humbled by the experiences of my life the last 2 years.
But, things are getting much better for me and my marriage. I had an A first and that was awful. Then, my H had a RA and that was awful. His OW harrassed me for weeks after Dday.
But, the O&H has gotten so much better with us. We took an awesome Mediterrean cruise a couple of months ago and visited Italy, Tunis, Barcelona, Monaco and Monte Carlo. We had a great time and our lives are so much better. I still pray for humility and compassion and kindness. I control my actions and my thoughts and have become a much better person. And, very much of it was because of this website.
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Hi, StillDawn!
I'm so glad you've given us an update! I'm even more glad that you and your husband are doing so much better!
Stick around! I'm quite sure you can be of help to others!
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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Welcome back, StillDawn - and I'm glad to see you're here under much better circumstances. I agree with LC - I'll bet other posters could benefit from your experience. Stick around! 
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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OMG!!! Blast from the past ~ and such a good one too! Dawn, I am so overjoyed to see this update from you ~ I think about you often ~ We need to catch up!  Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Thanks guys for the warm welcome!! I've missed this place. I will certainly help anyone I possibly can. MB and it's members have helped me so much and have taught me so much. But, mostly, it helped me to see what a horrible person I had turned in to. I am now in CONTROL of all my actions AND thoughts and they are all positive these days. The fog has been completely swept away from my brain.
My H and I still have much work to do and there are some things that still bother me like POJA--is not what it should be.
And, yes, Mrs. W-we do need to catch up!! Hope you are all doing well.
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