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This is what one of my FB friends just posted.  ![[Linked Image from lh4.googleusercontent.com]](https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/_w_yTHr2fcgc/TVdTRIuAk0I/AAAAAAAAEdk/wio1Rzn0DVU/180409_10150140662979276_769194275_7944448_236757_n.jpg)
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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ouch!! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Reminds me of a picture I saw a few years ago where the BW spray-painted her WH's car outside the hotel where he was with the OW. She spray-painted it with "I hope she was worth it", or something like that. 
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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Oh I dreamed about doing that so much, or spray painting her house, but settled for super gluing the windscreen wipers down.
Never saw the outcome, but knowing was enough!!
Me 50
WH 52
WH in A 6 yrs in total, last 5 yrs JGF (Not!)
DD final 1.12.10
NC letter sent 3.12.10
Working at being the best I can be, the rest is up to you.
He is still a plonker, but he is my plonker!
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My fantasy is using the largest permanent marker to write lovely comments on OW's car.
It isn't worth it though....cause the permanent marker on her life is way worse.
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