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I am writing here to simply say that I feel no other answer is available to me than plan D.
Too Many Lies.
Lack of love for me.
And finally, my love has died.
I have tried and tried.
No one need respond to me. I just needed to put it in writing for myself.
Hurting Turkey
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I am writing here to simply say that I feel no other answer is available to me than plan D.
Too Many Lies.
Lack of love for me.
And finally, my love has died.
I have tried and tried.
No one need respond to me. I just needed to put it in writing for myself.
Hurting Turkey Did something happen to push you over the edge? Where is your story?
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hurting, sorry to hear this but sometimes there's no other way.
Like SmilingWoman said, can you tell us a little more? We can be more supportive that way.
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Welcome to Plan D land.
I'm sorry.
I went back and read some of your posts over the past few months to see what you're dealing with. I hope you'll stick around here. It's not a bad place, and I've gotten some great support and advice here.
Me: BS 51
Himself: WH 53, EA/PA w/ RunnerSlut his "running buddy."
Buncha' kids. The two youngest are still minors.
Separated: 08/13/09 after 25 years of marriage
Plan D: Filed 11/13/09 Final 3/30/11
MC told me that he probably has a personality disorder
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HT, I hope you start a thread here with a synopsis. You can get good guidance through the divorce process including the legal stuff as well as the emotional aspects. We're all in the same boat here - none of us planned to be D'd when we said "I do." But still here we are trying to make the best of a very yucky situation.
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Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01) Divorce from WW final 9/16/10. Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10) Mine: S(16), D(11) NatureGirls: S(23), D(21) Another EA Story
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HT, I know you have been in such pain, but I can't say I am sorry to see you take some action. Please let the good folks on this forum support you. They are wonderful, compassionate, smart, supportive folks and I know you will be in good hands here.
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