My H and my best friend (we were close as couples also)had an on going 2 yr emotional affair. It all came out after she started talking about leaving her husband and I knew she must have some sort of back up plan. I asked my H all the hard questions and unfortunately got all the hard answers. Meanwhile...the other couple had been attending our church off and on. We know the total separation principle and had been advised of the same by the Pastor(he counseled them the same) and thought it was pretty cut and dried, they would go elsewhere. But...they have been attending regularly and have decided they would like to join. Knowing them as we did we thought if we could just stick it out they would eventually lose interest and go away. She has knot taken any kind of responsibility for the mess saying she was a victim because she was depressed.The strange things the OC has done since all of this leads us to believe that the root problem of their relationship has not been addressed which leaves me a little scared. We have decided that the best way to handle this is for us to leave the church we have attended for 20 yrs. and served in several ministries. Does anyone else see any other way? Thanks for any and all ideas.<BR>