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I was able to get back with my ex husband after 20 yrs of divorce. We have been together now for 2 1/2 yrs. But just within the last 2 1/2 months I have found out that he loves me but is not "in love". I have also found that he is talking/messaging his ex girlfriend (they were together for 13 yrs until she left him twice for other men) but now she is interested in him and of course they have history. It is really tearing me up inside; but I want to stand and fight. I have done the emotional needs and he did notice a difference; I just am not sure anymore. Any advise from viewers or staff? God only knows that I'm open for advise.
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Are you guys remarried yet? I would say he has a caring love towards you but is not romantically in love with you. I think you should convey more information, there is little to go on.
If you are married:
1. Snoop (Ask for his cellphone, install a keylogger *check investigation forum*, check emails, etc)
If you find it is an affair then you should expose it to your kids, family members, his family members, his kids, other girlfriend's husband if married, etc
If you aren't married I suggest you get your game up better and do the things that made him fall in love with you so many years ago!
Eric
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ARE YOU MARRIED? It sounds like you are dating ....
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General principles of dating:
It's like taking a car for a test drive.
If the wheels shimmy, they will still shimmy after you buy it.
If the paint is cracked, the paint will still be cracked after you buy it.
If it gets crappy milage, do not expect good milage after you buy it.
It it is not the make, model, condition you want, don't buy it.
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General principles of dating:
It's like taking a car for a test drive.
If the wheels shimmy, they will still shimmy after you buy it.
If the paint is cracked, the paint will still be cracked after you buy it.
If it gets crappy milage, do not expect good milage after you buy it.
It it is not the make, model, condition you want, don't buy it. And, if you knowingly decide to buy a broken down car that needs a lot of repairs to make it run correctly, don't complain about what a pain-in-the-butt that car is after you buy it. Make informed life decisions based on facts, not wishful thinking. We had one MB member (years ago) who married her H 2 weeks after discovering his infidelity during their engagement. Their marriage was crippled from day one. Please, choose carefully. Do not be desperate. BE PARTICULAR. Show discernment. Have high standards.
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Divorce is just as permanent as marriage.
Can a leopard change his spots?
But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
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