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Today it has been exactly 6 months since H revealed his EA with a co-worker. Our divorce will be final one week from today. Although I know there is no going back for us, I am feeling extreme feelings of sadness today. I am feeling this incredible sense of loss and betrayal. I just want it to be over.. but on the other hand I hate the ending it is coming to. Just needed some support tonight. Thanks all.<P>------------------<BR>Rachel :)<P>

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It has been almost 2 yrs for me, and 4 months since he moved out. We filed this week for divorce. I also sense I want finality to it, but I also feel such a sense of loss and pain...I know, for us, this is the best, he has not loved me in quite a while and I would never be what he wants, but it is hard..so I am with you tonight...<P>------------------<BR>Susan<P>

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Hi Rachel!! I think these kinds of dates and anniversaries will be hard for awhile. It's all such an awful loss. <P>My H's affair started 12/5/98. I can't believe its been almost a year.

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I don't have any advice to give, but I want you to know that I am sorry. I'll be praying for you.


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