This post came from the divorcebusting site, but I thought it was such a great way of looking at the 'having his cake and eating it too' dilemma that I wanted to share it!<P>"As far as having cake and eating it also…………………maybe you should let him fill up on cake. Let him stuff himself so full that he gets ill. I think most of us, especially men, eat their cake much to quickly to actually enjoy it the right way. Some men have been know to eat so quickly and furiously that they choke. If your husband comes choking to you be there, as a friend. Get him over his choking spell, as a friend then back away. "<BR>