It's been a little over a week since WW26's thread was locked, and she seemed convinced that her BH was planning some sort of criminal act toward the OM, and honestly it kinda made me worried about her safety.

If you're out there, please check in and let us know you're OK.

Hi WPG,

I am okay. Nothing to worry about in terms of my safety. He hasn't laid a hand on me or anything like that, no angry outburst.

In regards to the other matter I prefer not to discuss it.

My marriage is okay I guess though. We spend a fair bit of time together. He seems to be holding me to my EP. And checking if I am lying or not (which I have not and have been keeping to my list I gave him 2 weeks ago).

Thanks for your concern.

Edit:Also just read your recent post. Glad to hear you sound happier despite the circumstances. Things will work out, just keep taking care of yourself and your daughters.

I'm glad you're OK, and I'm glad things are on an even keel for you with your recovery efforts. It's a great thing you two are spending a good amount of time together! Take care and keep us updated, 'kay?

Will keep updating as things progress.

SF, conversation, recreation going well. He still wants a divorce but I think if he feels comfortable and that I am doing things to convince him that I will cheat he will be on board. We discussed some things for one of communication classes. He doesn't like others to be in control of a relationship nor discuss or think about his feelings much.

Sometimes he slips up when talking and talks like pre-affair. (no problems) But he still won't call me his wife, just last weekend a friend called and they asked if he was alone he paused then said yes. I also thinks he doesn't want me to get the wrong signals. I guess he didn't want to explain things plus they spoke a little English.

A vacation late this year may be in the works as well. Even if it's just casual and as "friends" I'll take it. I don't expect it to be romantic, just thought it would be nice to spend time together and I don't like traveling alone...had a bad experience getting lost recently :S.

Anyways just babbling. Thanks for your concern WPG.

Hope things are going well on your end.