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DH and I started dating. We had our first kiss on a ski lift in Big Bear, CA. We were night skiing.  To all of you in the beginning of recovery...stay the course! It's hard but worth it. I love my H and he loves me. I would never say that I am happy he had an A...but I AM happy we've had the chance to make our M better. It really is. Happy St. Patrick's Day!
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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Married 16yrs. 4 children
EA (ExWW): May-Nov 2009 + Aug-Dec 2010
D-DAY JAN 30, 2011
Exposure: FEB 7, 2011
Contact Again: Apr 25, 2011
Divorce Final Sept 2012
"I want to be married and stay married. Now I uunderstand the kind of marriage I want and we all deserve. But I also know it takes two to want to Build that Marriage."
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DH and I started dating. We had our first kiss on a ski lift in Big Bear, CA. We were night skiing. To all of you in the beginning of recovery...stay the course! It's hard but worth it. I love my H and he loves me. I would never say that I am happy he had an A...but I AM happy we've had the chance to make our M better. It really is. Happy St. Patrick's Day! Congrats! I hate to say it... but it did take FWW facing the reality of losing everything for her to finally be able to talk to me, or to even listen to me. Thankful to have that, broken over the cost.
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer
"Fair speech may hide a foul heart." - Samwise Gamgee LOTR
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MarriedForever,
So happy that things have worked out for the two of you.........shows that anything is possible with an open heart and good old fashioned work..........
jessi
BW 56
WH 57
Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
DS 23, DS 25
D-Day Nov 23/09
NC Mar 1/10
Working on Recovery
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 I think that's wonderful, MarriedForever!
FWW
"Snow and adolescence are the only problems that disappear if you ignore them long enough." ~ Earl Wilson
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YAY, MF! Congrats!
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Thanks Everyone.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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A little tear in my eye....
Glad there are happy endings.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
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DH and I started dating. We had our first kiss on a ski lift in Big Bear, CA. We were night skiing. To all of you in the beginning of recovery...stay the course! It's hard but worth it. I love my H and he loves me. I would never say that I am happy he had an A...but I AM happy we've had the chance to make our M better. It really is. Happy St. Patrick's Day! Wonderful post!
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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