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Have any of you written a letter to the OW? Is this a good idea?
I sent the OW an email today. It was very calm and respectful and didn't place blame (I actually took a little of the blame). I told her it was disrespectful to continue contact with H and to have tried to become my friend after the year-long affair (before I knew about it). I told her to cease contact. I asked her if she would like to share her side of the story with me, because I know the same situation can seem so different to everyone involved.
What are your opinions?
Me (26)
WH (31)
Married 4/2002
He cheated 2007 - 3/2011
I found out 3/2011
DD (7)
DS (6)
DS (4)
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Purplealligator, please stay on your original thread. It will make it easier for us to help you.
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Sorry, I'm scrambled and was wondering if this is a totally different question that what I originally was asking.
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Me (26)
WH (31)
Married 4/2002
He cheated 2007 - 3/2011
I found out 3/2011
DD (7)
DS (6)
DS (4)
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No prob.  Staying on one thread just makes it easier for us to 'find' you and keep up with your sitch.
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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