Since I've started educating myself about marriage and the various issues, I discovered a co worker had similar situation which we have discussed. I have learned so much that i have essentially turned into his counselor.

After I read HNHN, I suggested it to him and he loves it. He even told me yesterday that he used some of the info regarding his need for recreational companionship, asked wife from whim he is currently separated to do something with him and she did. He said they had a great time and saw immediate difference although jus a baby step. I just encouraged him to continue to educate himself and to use the information because it's no good to know and not use what you know.

I was so happy for him while at the same time somewhat envious that he has learned during a time when it could really make a difference but it seems as though I might have learned too late. I don't want anything but the best for him and his wife and I'm glad I could help him with what I've learned.

awesome!