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Exactly what I did. Pls read my emails to OW's sister and mother. I mentioned I will let H go if he wants a divorce. Is it a mistake to state so? If you already sent that, it is too late, but I would not tell her that again. That ho needs to know you will not roll over for her. She needs to know you will fight. I will go read again but I must have missed where you told them ALL that your H's parents know about the affair and will not welcome her into the family.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Madison, did you use the FB exposure form letter or did you use your own letter? I used the FB exposure form letter and modified a bit. A question for all: You must have heard about midlife crisis. Would the steps be different for those in midlife crisis? I ask so because Dr H's methods apply to affairs in general. Will they work in case of midlife crisis? People on midlifecrisis forum have very different opinions on how to handle affairs as results of midlife crisis.
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"mid life" crisis is a myth. It is nonsense.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Oh dear, Madison, don't go down that path.
MLC is code for affair.
My sister thought her H was having a MLC and I had a hard time convincing her to ignore the advice she had found online. She was giving her H "space" and his A was just becoming more and more entrenched. Once the A ended, the MLC disappeared!
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No, I do't think H has MLC... Just checking on your opinion.
I will be working on plan b and go with it. Will come back with updates later.
Thanks for your kind support and words of wisdom.
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