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#2507175 05/10/11 06:09 AM
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Wishing you well with your procedure today and trusting that your results are positive. smile

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Whatever you are doing today you are in my prayers. You can't improve perfection. Blessings.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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May God bless you with a speedy recovery.

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You once correctly advised me that self care was the order of the day. Back to you.

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Last edited by armymama; 05/10/11 10:01 AM.

BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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Thinking of and praying for you, Dear Pep...

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Be well, my friend. Thinking of you! smile


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Praying for you today, Pep!


Me,BW - 42; FWH-46
4 kids
D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006
D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR)
Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007

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I am lifting you up in prayer as well.


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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Ditto

Get Well soon.

Mr. W


FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

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Sending thoughts and prayers your way, Pep...


Ddays 2007 and 2011
Plan B 6/21/11
Divorced July 2012
2 kids
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hug , Pep!


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pray

(((Pep)))


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{{{{{Pep}}}}}

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thinking about you today, hope to have you back kicking some sense into us soon.


Me 44- yes ugggh
WH 47
together 26 years M 19
serial cheater big time
DD1 2.24.11
NC letter sent 3/7/11
NC letter to OW2 april
final truths 5/8-- all of them poly confirmed 5/18
working the plan

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Hugs and prayers for you today.

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Wish you a speedy recovery. God bless you!

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Best wishes and prayers, dear friend, coming your way from the Markos and Prisca household.


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Thanks everyone.
Yesterday & today ... was pretty unpleasant.
But, so what, right?
Waiting for results.

Your good thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated.

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(((Peppy)))


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hug

Pep, I hope all is well!


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