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I am totally new to posting but have read stuff before on the site. I really am at my end here as tonight my husband told me he wanted a divorce. A little back history on our marriage:
Met in September 1999
Got Married August 2000
I had an "emotional" affair online off and on 2003-2005 with one person. Husband found out and we went through counseling and then I went through individual counseling from 2007 on for Borderline Personality Disorder. Overall our marriage was getting better as he had forgiven me for what I put him through.
Tonight after many tears on my part he says that he is lonely and is unhappy. He says it's him and that he has never been unfaithful. I really thought our marraige was getting better and to have this dumped on me is hard, very hard. He is goingto go have the papers ready tomorrow for me to look over and such, I want to end this on a friendly level if this is what he really wants, but I want to fight for our marriage at the same time as I love him so much, he doesn't, he says he loves me as a friend and that he's felt that way now for about six months. What did I do wrong!
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Oh and we have no kids, forgot to add that.
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