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#2520827 06/17/11 03:36 PM
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Hey SusieQ
Sorry you are going through a painful betrayal again, just wanted to create a thread for you so people have a space where they can send you their love, thoughts and support.

I understand you might not be ready to discuss your situation with the MB group yet so you can just read this thread or participate in it as and when your ready.

Just know there is alot of love and support for you out here.


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BW 36(Me)
WS 38
Married: 2000
DD1November 22 2008 - DD2 October 2014
PA Duration September 08 - November 08
Second discovery- 6 online affairs 4 sexual one emotional. October 2014.kids: DS 17, DS 14, DS 12, DS 10 . Baby after divorce DS 18months

Divorced

Was misled into thinking we were in recovery for 6 years.

If you were shocked reading any of this, that this is the consequence of not following MB to the LETTER.

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Hugs to you and Chris SusieQ as you travel this journey.

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Awww, man. Nooo

hug , SusieQ.


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Saying a prayer for you both, esp you Susie. Hugs.


Change happens by listening and then starting a dialogue with the people who are doing something you don't believe is right. ~Jane Goodall
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(((Hugs)))


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Just so everyone knows, she is getting some support offline right now...she is overwhelmed and says thank you to all.

She will update when she can. She is very sad right now and doesn't feel up to posting.


Me,BW - 42; FWH-46
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(((SusieQ)))


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Understandable...((((SQ))))) from afar.

MF, you are a blessing.

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Originally Posted by Surfer88
Understandable...((((SQ))))) from afar.

MF, you are a blessing.
Susie is in very good hands right now. But you guys are great to rally behind her! What a great group of people friends!


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Originally Posted by MarriedForever
Just so everyone knows, she is getting some support offline right now...she is overwhelmed and says thank you to all.

She will update when she can. She is very sad right now and doesn't feel up to posting.

Totally understandable.
In fact, it's a good idea to go offline, considering what a jerk some person has become.
twoxfour

There is hope.
I want to take his kneecaps out ..... but there is hope.

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Hi Susie Q,
It has been a long time since I posted here. But when I saw this, I had to post. I'm sending you good thoughts and hugs. I will be thinking of you and wishing you the best.

-Txnatheart


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D-Month for me 01/08
D-Month for him 09/08
Plan B-Fall 2010
Currently in recovery

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