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are their any good examples of exposure letters on the site to reference?
I don't wish to be too long and preachy but i do wish to emphasis to all my wife's friends and family how much Being away has negatively impacted her, (the outrageous shopping, binge drinking, breaking of military rules besides adultery, relationship with children etc.) That way rather the being seen as the vindictive spouse because she don't love me, they can see how much she has changed over all.
Do i include the fact that she put this man over her own children, and how much she will be hurt when he leaves and then she loses me and the kids because she chose to continue it or just stick to hey shes cheating on me?
Me: BH
Her: ongoing PA/EA
Married 8 years
3 children 2,6,7.
Plan B, maybe D.
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unloved, here is one: Dear friends and family, I am writing you this message because you are an important person in the lives of Joe and I. As some of you know, Joe has recently asked me for a divorce, which has shattered my heart. To my shock, I have discovered that the reason is because he has been carrying on an affair with a woman who resides on XXX estate. The purpose of the separation is so that he can carry on his affair without my interference. Joe has tried to claim that his affair began AFTER I left for Australia, but this is not true. [as if that justified his adultery, we are still married]
As our friends, I am asking that you use your influence with Joe to persuade him to end his affair and try to work on our marriage. Our marriage can be salvaged if he would only end the affair. Please support him in doing the right thing. Please support our marriage.
I would so appreciate your support and prayers. Warmest regards, I would keep it THAT short. You don't want to add much more than that, just change this up to suit your situation.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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