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1. I've found my soulmate. I don't know how... it just happened.
2. You are an ogre. Stop trying to control me.
3. I need some space. Why don't you move out? Keep paying the mortgage here. But get yourself an apartment. Or maybe I'll move out, and then I'll come back when I sort things out.
4. I've never been happy with you. So what if I'm smiling in all those pictures in the photo album? That means nothing.
5. The problems in our marriage have nothing to do with the other person. So why should I stop talking to them?
6. The affair is the only fun I've had in years. Wheeeeee!
7. People get divorced all the time, the kids will be fine.
8. I didn't cheat on the family. I cheated on you!
9. I'm trying my best not to hurt you. It's just SO hard.
10. What do you want me to do, tell the truth?
11. OP, you are my best friend, my lover, and my kindred spirit. You give me the courage to flush my whole life down the toilet.
12. How could you tell all those people about my affair? It's none of their business. Now I have to apologize to OP.
13. I want to be single again. Why are you saying it's going to be hard as a single parent? See, you never believe in me.
14. What about meeeeeeeee???
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BH(Me)=40
WXW=38
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
DDAY: 8/31/09
Two boys: 8,7
Divorced 3/23/2011
Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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I particularly like number 11. Thanks for the laugh!
BW Me 31
WH 30
Married 2002
Children: DS 11, DS 8, DD 2
DD 01/07/11
I Filed Divorce 2 weeks later to protect myself and children.
In Plan B since 06/26/11.
Recovery began 07/23/11.
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15. How dare you want my support after the divorce! You should be willing to accept peanuts! Sorry, I had to. 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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16. I wish you would talk to OP. I think you'd like him/her. And while you're at it? Can you tell her/him that you're sorry about that whole exposure thing? That really upset OP, and now OP doesn't believe me anymore. 
Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
Peace.
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17. **regarding exposure to OWH** You should leave him alone ~ you are screwing up their M!
18. I needed to call OW to tell her you were going to confront her ~ she was going to be blindsided and she had a right to know!
19. You mentioned that you were wrong to stop monitoring me so closely ~ that's no way to live. I am in the process of writing you a letter about trust.
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20. You know? You are mean and controlling. And you are ruining OP's life. He/she has had a very hard life lately, and you really should be more sympathetic.
Thanks for all the support along the way.
I wish you all well. I'm outta here.
Peace.
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I am in the process of writing you a letter about trust. I scared the cat snorting out loud at that one.
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21) I spent the last 12 months holding her together.
22) I never wanted to s**g her but she was desperate
23) I was so lonely, I just wanted a friend. (But honey we don't s**g our friends)
Me 50
WH 52
WH in A 6 yrs in total, last 5 yrs JGF (Not!)
DD final 1.12.10
NC letter sent 3.12.10
Working at being the best I can be, the rest is up to you.
He is still a plonker, but he is my plonker!
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They all drink the same kool-aid, don't they? 24. (re: Exposure) "I'm going to sue you for slander."  25. "OP doesn't judge or try to control me." 26. "I only slept with OW ONE time and that's when she got preggers."  27. me: "Where is your faith and integrity?" POS: "That guy is dead." So I suppose this former youth Sunday School teacher, youth leader, Bible believer, has sold his soul. 28. (the saddest and most cruel of all....get ready for this) "OW could give me something you cannot." (see my sig line)
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Me: BS age 35 POS-eX-the SORRIEST, CRUELEST, LOWLY WAYWARD SCUMBAG out there Married 14.5 years, together almost 16 DDay: 7-5-09 OC born: 7-23-09 no COM: tried 6 years D filed 5/05/2011 D final 11/10/11 I was gaslighted for 2 years. "You were not built for a safe story. Take risks and feel what it is like to actually be brave. It's worth it." Carlos Whittaker
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To goodies
29.If you could only be more like OM 1 (long time ago) and OM 2 Baldo If I could mix the three of you all together into you- you would be the perfect man.
30. Don't worry about SF. Once in a while I will just slide your GF/W/ next relationship over in bed-take care of you and then go away until the next time.
HUH???
nESRE
M 29 yrs
DS 28 DD 18
Me 53 FWH FBS
MTA signed 5/11/2011
D final 5/16/2011
Free.... and going wherever the big guy wants me to go......
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31. Why don't you believe me that I am not having an A. I wish I could just run away and go to Mexico and get away so you will believe me.
BS Shakes head in disbelief and says HuH
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Great thread
32. He "Gets" me!
33. My H cant afford to take care of me anymore.
34. My drug addiction has nothing to do with my descisions
35. I don't need AA I have God.
36. My Pastor told me to only be around people who give me Grace no matter what I do, you have to forgive me just like Jesus does.(Yeah but I will never be Jesus, just not strong enough I guess, or was I just lazy?)
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after DDay 1
When I wasn't a happy or well bunny.......
37. You are just a bitter and twisted nasty bad person
Me?????
Really after that bomb shell???
Me 50
WH 52
WH in A 6 yrs in total, last 5 yrs JGF (Not!)
DD final 1.12.10
NC letter sent 3.12.10
Working at being the best I can be, the rest is up to you.
He is still a plonker, but he is my plonker!
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38. TE, you're a douche bag.
BH(Me)=40
WXW=38
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
DDAY: 8/31/09
Two boys: 8,7
Divorced 3/23/2011
Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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39. I'm not depressed when I am with her.
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40. So what. Millions of people have affairs everyday.
ME: BW
HIM: FWH
Married 18 yrs
DDay 09/2008 and 12/2008
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Pokerface: are our WH twins separated at birth??
Me 50
WH 52
WH in A 6 yrs in total, last 5 yrs JGF (Not!)
DD final 1.12.10
NC letter sent 3.12.10
Working at being the best I can be, the rest is up to you.
He is still a plonker, but he is my plonker!
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Pokerface: are our WH twins separated at birth?? I know Tanam. I often wonder the same thing after reading your posts. My WH is a UK citizen btw. Here is what followed that moronic statement: I knew it was a mistake as soon as I said that because you always turn everything around on me. I"m starting to be afraid to come home.
ME: BW
HIM: FWH
Married 18 yrs
DDay 09/2008 and 12/2008
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