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For the past month my husband hasn't wanted to have sex. He keeps saying that he's tired. Not sure what to do? Does this mean he's cheating? Please help!
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That's just not enough info to even make a guess.
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I know. That's the only questionable thing he does. I've been cheated on in the past by other guys so I'm a little paranoid. It usually starts out with lack of intimacy.
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There just isnt enough information here for anyone to help you
Is there a real reason for him to be tired all the time? Is it just the past month this has been an issue?
Is he the sort of person who would tell you if something was bothering him, or does he bottle things up?
Have you told him you are worried about this? Does he know about your past relationships and that this would bother you?
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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If you suspect a possible affair, the WORST THING that you could do is to ask/accuse him....because if he IS up to something, he's NOT going to tell you and will take it further underground.
Quietly snoop. Email, phone records, facebook account, whatever you can get your hands on. A keylogger and flexispy or other cell phone type of software would also be helpful. There is lots of information over in Operation Investigation.
If you find more information, again, don't confront your H. Come back here and we'll help you...
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