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I bumped your previous thread so that people could read all the advice you were given before.
I take it that you still do not know the ID of OW, and so still have nothing concrete to expose?
You should hire a PI. Two days' work (or less) would give you the identity of OW and you would be able to move forward with the advice we gave you last time. You need to kill this affair and get your H to commit to a plan of recovery if he wants to come home. If he will not cease contact with his OW, you need to go into plan B.
You cannot do either plan until you know the status of the affair. Hire a PI now.
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Joined: Sep 2008
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I bumped your previous thread so that people could read all the advice you were given before.
I take it that you still do not know the ID of OW, and so still have nothing concrete to expose?
You should hire a PI. Two days' work (or less) would give you the identity of OW and you would be able to move forward with the advice we gave you last time. You need to kill this affair and get your H to commit to a plan of recovery if he wants to come home. If he will not cease contact with his OW, you need to go into plan B.
You cannot do either plan until you know the status of the affair. Hire a PI now. Saphire, it took me time to post this advice. Why have you not responded to it, and indeed deleted your post so that mine was a complete waste of time?
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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