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I'm so sorry this should go under the infidelity subject. Has anyone ever found out that her husband was cheating because he said his girlfriend's name while you were having sex?
Then he has the nerve to tell me he doesn't know anyone by that name, and gets mad when I bring it up after a few days.
I'm pretty much stuck. Got two sons, both with Aspergers, one with some pretty major health issues, as well. The older one has Bipolar, too.
And I am losing my mind, eating xanax like tictacs. Husband tells me it's not normal to act this way....
help
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Hi Becky, welcome to Marriage Builders. I would stop accusing him and start snooping. That will rule an affair in or out.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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henbecky, welcome to marriage builders and sorry you are here.
Click on the link in my signature for newly betrayed spouses, and read through it.
There is a snooping forum as well, and you should check that out.
Your Husband is right, it isn't normal to live like this, but it sure is normal when your spouse is having an affair.
Please answer the questions found in the first post of the newly betrayed thread, and don't tell your husband about this site.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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2 sons 20 & 14 both have severe special needs
25 yrs 1st for both
ortho clinic or hospital
at least two years, not sure if it's over yet
foreign panties and undershirt in laundry after weekend trip to see family and said he had no clue where the panties came from.
called her name when I was giving him OS, and swears he has no clue who (OW NAME) is.
Own it and reading it, WH doesn't want me to read all these books. wants me to focus on his needs her needs and we'll work on one at a time. says Sorry, I guess I should have explained more. We need this on your thread here, just so we can keep it all together. Thanks.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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