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1.) Men should go after wife in am affair. How? Ask her on dates? Make time alone with her? How to stop other guy?
2.) my 2 best friends says plan b will work. Should I just stop with the lite plan A because I am supporting her affair?
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This is just a little too cryptic for us to figure out what you want help with. Have you read the basic concepts? Have you read the thread "For Newly Betrayed Spouses" on the notable posts forum? link: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1659680#Post1659680We need a better description of your situation and just some general information. Who, what, where and how long, your ages, ages of kids, if any. Who is OM? Have you exposed her/them? Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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I take it you've discovered your wife having an affair?
Sorry you are here but you're in the right place.
Can you give more details?
Your ages, how long married, is it first marriage for both? children?
What did you discover and when? Who is the OM? Is your wife still with you?
How long have you been plan Aing her?
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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