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I've been married 8yrs with 3 kids. About 2yrs ago I found she was chatting on a website with guys while I was deployed. We talked and wokred it out. She said it was loneliness and a her sexual fantasy. In the last year I've cuagt her on FB having what i think are inappropriate conversations with guys she know. Once I came home and she was on her laptop upstair and I was downstaris and kept hearing noises from the coumpter and it was her FB page up and chatting with this guy. She said they were only joking and i told her how i felt..said it would never happen again. Yesterday I came home and she left her FB page up and forgot and asked me to look up something for her again it was a chat message to her asking was she still coming out there for her bday. she said he must have sent to the wrong person, but her bday is next month and he lives in her home town. After that she again said sorry and deleted her FB page. Should I trust her or not? Right now I just can't seem to get over it and i'm ready to leave. Any advise? Thanks
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maino, no, you should not trust her AT ALL. I would strongly suggest you slip a keylogger on her computer and see what she is doing. A good one that will email you reports is eblaster at spectorsoft.com
It sounds like she is trolling for affairs on the internet. She has very inappropriate boundaries around men and the solution is for her to end all opposite sex "friendships" and stay off the computer unless it is with you.
But FIRST, go slip a keylogger on her computer, find out what she is doing and then come back here.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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... Should I trust her or not? ...
Me: FWH, 50
My BW: Trust_Will_Come, 52, tall, beautiful & heart of gold
DD23, DS19
EA-then-PA Oct'08-Jan'09
Broke it off & confessed to BW (after OW's H found out) Jan.7 2009
Married 25 years & counting.
Grateful for forgiveness. Working to be a better husband.
"I wear the chain I forged in life... I made it link by link, and yard by yard" ~Jacob Marley's ghost, A Christmas Carol
"Do it again & you're out on your [bum]." ~My BW, Jan.7 2009
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Bumped for truth from ML and GO.
Start with "hell no".
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