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When I talked to MIL last ( H was off to OW's) She told me she didn't know what to do with Christmas because she wants lil OC there, but ..... Well maybe I'll just come and see the girls at your home.....<P>What in the *%^# does that mean....<P>To me it sounded like OW/OC are going to enjoy the Holidays at my MIL's and I get shoved to the side....???<P>cozy <hurting>
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I am sorry but like I was told here that H is mil's child. I know she wants him with her on Christmas and if he wants the OW and OC what choice does she have? I don't think you are being push aside but I think your MIL is in a difficult situation and doesn't really know what to do. The one to be angry at is your H he is the one who is pushing you out.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>
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Cozy,<P>Can you tell your mother in law that you are feeling discarded? Does she even care how other people feel? Is she at all safe?<P>Have you and her been able to talk about changing the family traditions? I mean, this sounds like she is considering making some major changes - and why in the world would she even tell you about her considerations at this point, unless she wants your input?<P>I feel for you. I can imagine how rejected you must feel for yourself, and for the girls. I think your MIL needs to know this.<P>TNT
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We never really realize how much we'll be up against do we? I guess I should have to deal with this issue and the possibility of the girls meeting their little half brother also during these holidays coming up.... OUCH<P>I cant believe how many concequences of the sin of the betrayer that the betrayed and other innocent victems have to suffer for..<P>This all just doesn't seem fair... I really blew it after I was there and blew up at H in an e-mail.... Got both barrels back too...<P>cozy
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