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#2536767 08/19/11 04:46 PM
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Hello everyone. I am new here. I read some of the posts and I see some of you mention Plan A and Plan B.
What is it all about? Please explain. Thanks

LostinLies #2536769 08/19/11 04:53 PM
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It helps to let us know why you are here.

Tell us about yourself and your situation.

The members of this forum need to know why you are posting in order to help you.

WELCOME


BH(Me)= 55
WW(Her)=43
DD=24 (My step-daughter, been raising her since the age of 8, SHE'S MY DAUGHTER!!)
Married=13 yrs
Together=16.5 yrs
THIS IS MY STORY
WW moved out of the home = May 1,2011
D-Day=July 4, 2011
Dear Wife: I'm COMPLETELY CRAZY about you!.....as of Aug-2012 forget that last part....Good Luck to you and GOODBYE!!
"Mourn the woman she was. Know the woman she is."
BillCarolina #2536773 08/19/11 05:12 PM
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LIL,

Look at the right hand column of this screen. Read the "how to survive infidelity" link under the area in red and yellow. Then, read through the rest of the information linked there. By the time you get through that information, and you have read up on Dr. Harley's basic concepts, you will be ready to get the most out of the information regarding Plans A and B.

There are also areas of the forums specifically designed to explain these concepts.

Plan A is - basically - the initial response of the betrayed spouse who desires to recover the marriage. It is the Plan followed to immediately begin the changes necessary in the BS, work toward meeting the emotional needs of the wayward spouse, and attempt to break up the affair.

Plan B is implemented after Plan A has been in effect - if and only if Plan A is ineffective in breaking up the affair.

That is the very short version of explanation.


Read the information linked at the right side of this forum.


SB


Lucky to be where I am, in a safe place to get marriage-related support.
Recovered.
Happy.
Most recent D-day Fall 2005
Our new marriage began that day. Not easily, but it did happen.

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