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Hello there-
I am new to MB, and I just don't know where to start. I have been married for 14 1/2 years, and my husband came home one day and told me he didn't love me anyone, and there was someone else. We currently still reside in the same house, and he is gone every weekend. It saddens me each time he walks out the door to go to her. I feel lost and asshamed I failed at my marriage.
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Hello there-
I am new to MB, and I just don't know where to start. I have been married for 14 1/2 years, and my husband came home one day and told me he didn't love me anyone, and there was someone else. We currently still reside in the same house, and he is gone every weekend. It saddens me each time he walks out the door to go to her. I feel lost and asshamed I failed at my marriage. WELCOME TO MARRIAGE BUILDERS Please, do not give up hope. Please do not feel ashamed. To work the MB plans, you need to be focused and strong. **** click this LINK to get started ****
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It saddens me each time he walks out the door to go to her. Who is OW? Is she married? Divorced? A co-worker of his?
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Oh Honey
Welcome to MB, the club no one wants to join.
First go to the newbies thread. Read lots. The vets will be along soon with next steps. Listen to them, they are scary in their accuracy.
Do what they say, even if it feels wrong. If you want to keep your marriage, still love the alien that is your husband, even tho you don't recognise who he just lately, just follow what they say.
If I had found this in time, well lets just say 5 years might have been better spent!
Thinking of you
Blessings
Me 50
WH 52
WH in A 6 yrs in total, last 5 yrs JGF (Not!)
DD final 1.12.10
NC letter sent 3.12.10
Working at being the best I can be, the rest is up to you.
He is still a plonker, but he is my plonker!
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She is not married, and works with him, and is younger then him.
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Thank you for the kind words. Just need the strength to figure out what is next.
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Thank you for the kind words. Just need the strength to figure out what is next. These Veterans will show you the way!! Do what they say! I'm only a few months ahead of you in the process. Hang on! Spend time reading all you can on this website!!!! The people here will help you!
BH(Me)= 55 WW(Her)=43 DD=24 (My step-daughter, been raising her since the age of 8, SHE'S MY DAUGHTER!!) Married=13 yrs Together=16.5 yrs THIS IS MY STORYWW moved out of the home = May 1,2011 D-Day=July 4, 2011 Dear Wife: I'm COMPLETELY CRAZY about you!..... as of Aug-2012 forget that last part....Good Luck to you and GOODBYE!!"Mourn the woman she was. Know the woman she is."
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You have been asked to do a lot of reading. Let us know when you are ready with questions about the reading/plans.
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