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I had an affair. It seems most of you are the victims of an affair and here I am posting about being the one responsible for having one.
Married 10 yrs, together 13. Two boys 7 and 1.5 yrs.
Can/Will I ever get her back?
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ILMF, some of us have walked in your shoes. Like me.
Tell me about it:
With whom?
How did it start?
Why do you think it happened?
How long?
Why did it end?
Was she married, too?
How'd your wife find out?
Does she know the full truth?
Where's your marriage stand now?
Where do you want it to be?
I'm here to tell you that marriages can be saved & made better after an affair. Guys who go wrong like you & I did can be forgiven. Their marriages can become better than before the affair.
It ain't easy, but it's possible. There's that hope. There are no guarantees, but there are things you can do to better your odds.
Keep talkin', I'm listening.
Me: FWH, 50
My BW: Trust_Will_Come, 52, tall, beautiful & heart of gold
DD23, DS19
EA-then-PA Oct'08-Jan'09
Broke it off & confessed to BW (after OW's H found out) Jan.7 2009
Married 25 years & counting.
Grateful for forgiveness. Working to be a better husband.
"I wear the chain I forged in life... I made it link by link, and yard by yard" ~Jacob Marley's ghost, A Christmas Carol
"Do it again & you're out on your [bum]." ~My BW, Jan.7 2009
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I had an affair. It seems most of you are the victims of an affair and here I am posting about being the one responsible for having one.
Married 10 yrs, together 13. Two boys 7 and 1.5 yrs.
Can/Will I ever get her back? ILMF, You belong here. If you are committed to saving your marriage and being a better person you belong here. Let me as a BS welcome you to marriage builders discussion list and encourage you to stick through this. How long was your affair? what was your relation to this woman (how did you know her)? What have you done so far to recover? CV
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