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Please pray for me.. That he try's to work it out be for we call it quits..
Right now he does not even want to try..
We have to much at stake .. 2 marriage 1 child from marriage 1 And a 2 Yr old from this marriage.. I know if we try it will work. I just need him to try/ drink the water..
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Hi Holley, welcome to Marriage Builders. Does he say why he wants a divorce? Is there someone else in the picture? If you think that's a possibility, you should click "Notify" and ask the mods to move your thread to "Surviving an Affair" where it will get much more attention.
Can you give us a little more background about what's going on?
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Holley,
Please post your story on the Marriage Builders 101 thread. It is not an accident that you are here. God has placed angels in the wings who are waiting to help you. You'll find them there.
D-Day 2-10-2009
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Thank you Marital Bliss ..
"God has placed angels in the wings who are waiting to help you."
i need to write that on my arm.. and look at when i start to freak out :o(
I'm a wreak I'm having panic attacks ..
can't sleep
haven't eaten solids in 7 days now.
I'm alone.
this is the most horrible thing that has ever happened to me..
i have had a rough child hood and i'm a very strong person from it..
but i stand no contest to this situation.. i know god doesn't want us to be D.word .. just don't know what i should be doing to not lose him.
ps i posted on 101 "he Won't Drink The Water"
Pray for him..
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Stay with us Holley. There are so many angels here to help you.
You'll see them by many names, but they are all God-given people who are here to help you.
God Bless-
Last edited by maritalbliss; 09/04/11 07:26 PM.
D-Day 2-10-2009
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i'm here thank you .. I love him so much :o(
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he came back!! thank YOU!! :o)
thank you JESUS !!
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I so happy for you, Holley! Would you please update your thread on the Marriage Builders 101 forum? There are a lot of posters who are following that thread and may miss this one.
AND - understand that it is NO coincidence that you are on Marriage Builders. God has guided you here. He has people here who are waiting to help you.
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he's back at wanting a d. word .. he's teeter tottering over the fight or flight .. :o/ i'm praying every second for enough love to to be restored so we can work it out.. Please keep praying 
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We will - but you need to update your thread so that we can give you more advice.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
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Holly, do you see how you were up on September 7 and are now so down on September 16? This is a terrible storm with lots of these ups and downs. You need a plan to know how you are going to get through this alive and with marriage intact. Please go post on your thread and give details and pay close attention to the advice given. We can help you use the information on this site.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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