GW6, did you tell your wife the truth about your affair? You strangely don't mention doing that.

I wasn't "bashing" either. I was just pointing out to a WS the perspective of a BS on what his update was about. The fact that GW is working with SH and had such a foggy response to the LB questionnaire made me cringe. It made me think that he may compare his BW to OW in other ways which will actually have OW on the winning side. And THAT would be bad bad bad for recovery.

GW should be avoiding ALL thoughts of OW, not comparing her to his BW, because there is no comparison. Even without knowing his BW, I can say that she is better than OW will ever be. Just saying.

He said he did. You probably missed it, because he dropped it in as part of a bigger post and didn't discuss it at all. He said he told both her and Steve, and then moved right along.

I'd like to know what his WW had to say. I'd also like to know if she would be willing to post here.

I was thinking that myself...

Call it 2x4's, 4x4's or 8x8's..... IMO, It's just fog clearing.....

When I arrived here I would have been eaten alive had I posted anything remotely close to what you have posted...

Listen, I'm sincerely happy to see you and your wife coaching with SH. The Harley's are the best at helping couples through infidelity.

I'm sorry you took offense to my earlier posts...
My true intention was to smack you in the head.... I have no qualms with that, and if you're honest with yourself, you deserve much worse than I or anyone here could ever dish out... You deserve the same thing I deserved, and I deserved to be run over by a Mack truck again and again...

That being said;
If you want coaching, call SH..... If you want help out of the foggy thinking, post here and take your 2x4's when needed. Remember, you'll receive a great deal of admiration when you've accomplished something admirable, just like with most waywards that post here, it comes in time.
But when I and others see fog, we're gonna shine some high beam lamps on the post in order to help you clear it out..... I'm quick to help waywards, after-all, I was one once as well, but I'm just as quick to call bull when I see it.....

If you feel you can handle it, go back through your thread and answer all the questions each poster has asked, without being defensive. There really are a few you've missed. It really does matter to us when we ask questions and they are not answered. And if you have questions,,, ask!

yes, but .....