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I hang out with a few ladies at my work and we all have lunch together every day.
A couple of days ago, one of the ladies asked one of the others who it was that she talked to every day on her cell phone as she was leaving work? The other lady answered that it was her boyfriend--none of us was aware that she had a boyfriend. This lady is in her 50's so, not young. She went on to explain to us that he was married and that this guys wife knew about them and had sent her a few text messages in the past but the wife thought it had ended between these two. And, that this had been going on for the past 3 years. This guy also works at our same company but, she would not tell us who he is. Since this information has come out, I feel very uncomfortable hanging out with this person. I have not said anything to her. What do I do with this? Having been involved in infidelity from both sides this situation makes me feel terrible.
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Did you say anything to her about her actions?
In your shoes, I would lay low and keep my eyes open. You never know when waywards who work together will get sloppy. Prob at the Christmas party! If his identity ever becomes apparent to you, I would tell the wife.
Until then, you dont know who this woman is and so cant do anything.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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