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Re: Another Exposure Question Specific to My Situation
JAS2002 #2545613 09/19/11 09:46 PM
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Oh and at this point if I do not choose to do exposure I will be trying to do my best to wait this out.
This is like playing Russian Roulette. Why would you risk your marriage like this? Each day they are together - either in person or via phone - cements their relationship.
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Wih 1200 miles between them and their only contact being secret texts, calls and facebook (and I and a couple other people watch that like a hawk and they know it) it is going to die out eventually.
You are making a dangerous assumption. Have you ever heard the expression "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? You are basing your actions on hope and assumptions. This is a poor plan for ending the affair.
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They can't see eachother, they can't touch if they wanted to, they can't share daily life, etc.
Oh, they'll figure out a way. Waywards are good like that.

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Re: Another Exposure Question Specific to My Situation
mmmherb #2545617 09/19/11 10:17 PM
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"Oh and at this point if I do not choose to do exposure I will be trying to do my best to wait this out. Yesterday I think I did some real damage to the EA through a conversation with OW on facebook. I think it had the desired effect of planting seeds of doubt in her head about how honest he was being with her AND I. "

Okay. Good luck with that. Arrghhh!
Re: Another Exposure Question Specific to My Situation
Surfer88 #2545619 09/19/11 10:23 PM
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While you're waiting this out,they are bonding and planning their lives together. Yep, you did plant a seed. Now she can confirm that you are a jealous nut. Good job!

For Pete's Sake, expose! Stop giving ammo to the enemy which is the freaking A!
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