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Wow. It's been a long time since I've posted on this board. I am here over 3 years ago seeking advice to save my marriage. The time has flown since I finally decided to end the marriage. I am in a way better place now.
I found out recently my ex-husband is getting married to the woman he had the affair with. Well, I guess I wasn't shocked. He was able to get our marriage annulled in the catholic church, so I figured there was a reason why he did it.
I thought I would be upset or angry about it, but I really wasn't. My mother is way more angry about the injustice!
I am actually happy and relieved that he has been able to move on and maybe found some closure. I lived with guilt for sometime after I finally ended because I thought I had ruined his life.
Anyway, I am doing well. I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man. I am truly in a happy place.
I never thanked the people like MelodyLane and catperson and many others who were guiding lights in my darkest days. This place was really a godsend. I'm so grateful that this place existed when I needed.
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Welcome back zoraziyal.
I'm glad it's with good news this time of your personal recovery.
Stick around and post! We have plenty of people here that need your message and knowledge. This is not a "marriage-at-all-cots" place. "Success" is sometimes your personal recovery & success and the ability to see a bright future.
Congratulations on the new relationship and wishing you all the happiness you deserve!
Dday- Feb 1998
Recovered!!
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This is not a "marriage-at-all-cots" place. Nerlycrzy is right. I don't think I've ever seen someone suggest that a married person get into any cot other than their own.  Sorry, Nerly - I couldn't resist.  Seriously, zoraziyal, if you're in a good place now and are happy, please share your recovery story with us!
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Sorry, Nerly - I couldn't resist.  WHY don't we have Spell-Check??
Dday- Feb 1998
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Welcome back zoraziyal.
I'm glad it's with good news this time of your personal recovery.
Stick around and post! We have plenty of people here that need your message and knowledge. This is not a "marriage-at-all-cots" place. "Success" is sometimes your personal recovery & success and the ability to see a bright future.
Congratulations on the new relationship and wishing you all the happiness you deserve! Thanks! That's my plan. I think this place is great, because it does try to teach you skills to be in a relationship. Any kind of relationship really. Though I didn't save my marriage, I do hope that I can provide some insight to people who are currently struggling with the same thing.
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 glad you are in a good place
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