HI SHERYL & H!!<BR> This is actually a reply to YOUR reply to MY post. Whew! Anyway, I wanted to make sure you guys got this:<BR> <BR>Sheryl and H,<BR>I AM SOOO HAPPY hear you BOTH read this!! And the Champagne is a good idea!! You guys will REALLY celebrate soon!! <BR> <BR>To NB H:<BR>You my friend have NO IDEA (Or maybe just some idea) how lucky you are!! I understand (and live) the hurt you feel, believe me!! I NEVER in my WILDEST dreams thought I could EVER want my W back if she did this!! <BR>I guess MY lesson is that "Love is Eternal" I have loved her, therefore I DO love her.<BR>Your W Sheryl is a rare bird! I know it bothered you that she came here. But THINK if the UNSELFISH courage she has!!<BR>Most of us are in the same boat, betrayed.<BR>Your W came here unafraid of the judgement she may have faced from the majority of us, TO GET HELP TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE!! I think that speaks VOLUMES of the "Eternal" Love you two have had, and WILL FIND again!!<P> Sheryl, anything I can say to you would be repeating myself, BUT I DO still need your wisdom...<BR>I know YUK and you guys feel sorry for me (so do I) But, am I doing the right thing? IS THERE PROGRESS IN YOUR EYES? Please go to MY post and tell me what you think. THANKS AND PRAYERS FRANK<P><BR><P>------------------<BR>desperate<P><BR>

Sheryl,<P>I'm another one rooting for you and H. Being in a similar boat myself (betrayers and betrayeds-both my H and I) I always look forward to your post. I was dissappointed when I read the two of you are seperating. But I'm praying that God will draw you back together again as two hearts beating as one.<P>My H and I both want it to work between us, too. I'm still waiting for the re-connection to take place (and sometimes, I wonder so much if it is even possible); but we want and are praying for it. Sometimes I feel so much love for him, my heart feels like it is going to burst out of my chest. Other times, I love him but don't feel in love with him (but I know I am). Its just the pain. Its me looking at my wound instead at the One who can heal us. Anyway, just wanted to let you know that you two are in my prayers. Hang in there and don't give up!<BR>

Hey There Kat!! <P>Glad to hear you're finally catching (or caught!) up on that sleep. I need to do the same, and since I'm feeling less stressed and more like it's a possibility these days I just might get there too. Although, being daylights savings time and all, and having an EXTRA hour to sleep... well, I didn't. Go figure!<P>Frank,<P>Is this a response to your response to my response to your post which I responded on? <P>Thanks for the kind words, again... you're a good man!!<P>hurtingwife,<P>Yes, we should probably form a group for the betrayed/betrayer folks. I think we have a unique prespective - that's for sure! What do you do with a group like us? You can't say we don't understand from the betrayed side - we do so much - and you can't say we don't understand from the betrayer side - sadly we do. That's why when I read stuff from folks like D99 I get so frustrated. I think, "there but for the grace of God goeth I"... I wish I could say I never knew what it was like to betray your spouse... sad, huh??<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>